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“I GOT 10 HITS OUT OF MY LAST DIVORCE.” He said it in 1989 and it played as a joke, and it wasn’t one. It was an inventory. His third marriage had just ended and he was counting the receipts. He had learned that exchange rate the slow way. In Atlanta in the early seventies he sold glass — mirrors, shower enclosures, storefront panes cut to order. He hadn’t quit on purpose; the contracts ran out, the labels went quiet, and a man with a family takes the work that exists. He kept a guitar in the company truck. Nothing was wasted if you were patient enough. That was the whole theory, and for years he had nothing to test it on but waiting. Then it paid. He was forty-two when Elektra signed him, and the eighties gave him nineteen top-ten records and a name that wasn’t a name — Nashville stopped calling him Vern and started calling him The Voice. In 1988 came “Chiseled in Stone,” an old man in a bar telling a young one he doesn’t know what lonely is until he’s read a name cut into a headstone. It took Song of the Year. The arithmetic held. Put in the worst year of your life, take out a career. Then the strokes started, and there was nothing to convert. A stroke is not a story. It doesn’t come back as a record. He died in Nashville on April 28, 2009, at seventy-four, with a tour bus half-renovated for a June festival he never played. His fans petitioned to get him into the Country Music Hall of Fame; it hasn’t worked. He had spent forty years turning everything he lost into something that lasted. The man who sang that song is not carved into anything.