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NASHVILLE NEVER FULLY UNDERSTOOD HOW BIG HE WAS — HARARE, ZIMBABWE, 1997. He walked onto a stage in Zimbabwe and 10,000 Africans sang every word of “You’re My Best Friend” back to him. He was the only American country star who ever bothered to tour the continent. When he died in 2017, a Kenyan journalist wrote the obituary that Nashville never thought to write. Nobody in America realized what Don Williams was outside of America. While Garth Brooks was filling stadiums in Texas and Alan Jackson was headlining the CMAs, the Gentle Giant — 17 #1 country hits, CMA Male Vocalist of the Year 1978 — was quietly the most popular country singer in Zimbabwe, Kenya, Nigeria, Ghana, Uganda, Ethiopia, Malawi, Sierra Leone, Tanzania, Zambia, Namibia, and South Africa. In 1997 he flew to Harare and recorded two concerts that became the film Into Africa. The footage shows something American country music had never seen: thousands of Black fans in Zimbabwe singing Lord, I Hope This Day Is Good word-for-word in an accent Don Williams had never heard before. Kenyan country singer Sir Elvis Otieno later told American journalists that Don Williams had been on Kenyan radio since the 1970s — more consistently than he had ever been on American country radio. When Williams died in September 2017, the most quoted tribute did not come from Nashville. It came from a Kenyan satirist named Ted Malanda, writing for The Standard in Nairobi: A moment of silence for the thousands of Kenyan kids who were conceived with Don Williams crooning in the background. Nashville mourned a hit-maker. Africa mourned a voice that had been the soundtrack to two generations of love, marriage, and grief across an entire continent the country music industry had never bothered to notice. What does it mean to be a legend in a place your own country does not know you went?

HIS THIRD MARRIAGE FELL APART IN 1989 — THE MOST TRAUMATIC ONE OF HIS LIFE. HE WALKED INTO A STUDIO AND RECORDED AN ENTIRE ALBUM ABOUT IT — 10 SONGS TRACING EVERY STAGE OF THE DIVORCE. HE CO-WROTE THE TITLE TRACK WITH HIS OWN SON STEVE — THE BOY WHO HAD WATCHED IT HAPPEN. IT HIT #1 ON MAY 1989. IT WAS THE LAST #1 OF HIS LIFE. Nobody in Nashville was making concept albums about their own divorce in 1989. Traditional country was dying on the radio. Randy Travis was the future. Garth Brooks was six months away. And here was Vern Gosdin — 54 years old, voice like weathered oak — walking into the studio to record ten songs about the wife who had just left him. He called the album Alone. He did not hide behind fiction. He wrote about the betrayal, the anger, the empty house, the paradise that ended in 1983. He brought his son Steve into the room to help write the first single, and together with Buddy Cannon they put the whole thing on tape: I’m still crazy — but I’m not over you. When a reporter later asked him how he had managed to turn that kind of wreckage into music, Gosdin did not flinch. “Out of everything bad, something good will come if you look hard enough — and I got 10 hits out of my last divorce.” It went #1 the week of May 1989. Nobody knew it then, but the door was closing. He would chart again, but never at the top. The last #1 of his career was the sound of a father and son writing down what a mother had done. What does a man put into a song — when the woman it is about is gone, and the son beside him at the piano is the one she left behind?